F R I E N D S

this is a broken record:

"good friends" are everywhere.
they are most visible and oftentimes around
when they need you.
but when problems arise
or truth comes out,
they are gone.
this is when
"real friends" stay,
gives a sincere tight hug,
no words,
no judgement
but compassion.

you do not have the latter,
if at times of trouble or chaos,
you find yourself standing alone;
or cannot have the latter,
if one of  you is untruthful.

even in families,
you can see
bad or real friends.

just a thought...

if we will focus

on what we lost,

instead of what is left...

we will be disappointed

and may even give up.

why not pick up

the pieces of what is left,

the good ones;

and go from there.

life is beautiful.

it is only when you

focus on the bad ones,

the frustrations,

the lost

that makes it ugly.

focus on the bright ones.

learn the lesson and move on.

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i want to thank all those who have

taken time to greet me on my birthday!.

esp Mecoy, Suz, Sir Brian, Hank aka Kaykuala, Janie Junebug, JC

love you guys!.. God bless everyone!..

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i just started a new job after 3 months

of searching. i will be back to regularly

write and visit blogs.

I Am 43!...

Yes! to day I am 43...

No complains!

There are still experiences of

being asked for Identification Card

when ordering alcohol in a bar... LOL

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(photo from google)

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It is lovely, when I forget all birthdays, 

including my own, 

to find that somebody remembers me.

Ellen Glasgow

(quote from brainy quotes)